There is an old saying, “You can
lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.” We would all agree this
is true. Yet, I also know (as a former-horse-owner) that if you provide that
same horse with a scoop of his favorite sweet feed (you know the kind covered
with molasses), sprinkled with a bit of mineral salt for good measure, then he
can very soon drain a two gallon bucket of water in no time flat! Did I make
him drink? No, but I helped to create a thirst in him that made him want to.
As Christ-followers, most of us
have a desire to lead people to the Lord. Yet, we know we cannot make them
receive Him. There have been times that I got frustrated and discouraged when
they didn’t. And, unfortunately, I have often even used this as an excuse to
keep me from attempting to lead them at all.
“Why bother? They’re not interested,” or so I think. However, if the
analogy holds true, then I can ask myself, “How am I creating a thirst in this
person’s life for the Lord?”
Do I love them so sacrificially
that it gives them a taste of what it is like to be loved by God (so much that
they want to experience it for themselves)?
Do I humbly demonstrate a life
of such purity that it causes them to notice their sin stains in front of a holy God
(not to condemn but to convict)?
Do they see me patiently bearing
with offenses instead of insisting on my rights so that they understand a God of grace
and forgiveness? (Didn’t our Lord say they would know we are His disciples by
the way we love one another?)
When they look at my life, do they
notice a joy, a peace, and a firm foundation that is attractive to them? Not
that they see a perfect life without difficulties, but rather, when they do see
my weaknesses and difficulties, they think,
“How
is it possible that she has not lost her ever-loving mind by now? I must ask
her the reason for the hope that is within her?” (OK, that's a rough version of 1 Peter 3:15.)
We taught the first catechism to
our boys at a very young age.
“What is
the chief end of man? The chief end of
man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever.” Giving glory to God means to display His great
worth. Let’s pray that as others look at our lives, they will witness the awesome
value of knowing and serving this wonderful King Jesus. Let’s create some thirst.
After all, He is able to provide the living water (John 7:38).